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General List of Topics to be Resolved in Divorce

The Four Ways of Divorce

Learn about divorce grounds, alimony, property and debt distribution, child custody, visitation, child support, thoughts on how lawyers and judges view the process, the costs involved, and how best to achieve your goals. Book by Rachel Virk

  1. Custody
    1. Physical—primary or shared
    2. legal—sole or joint
    3. if shared physical custody—detailed custodial schedule, or            scheduled by agreement
  1. Visitation
    1. detailed schedule, or scheduled by agreement
    2. holidays/birthdays/summer/telephonic/travel 
  2. Child Support/direct pay or withholding order/commencement date/arrears/transfer to juvenile court
  3. Extracurricular Activities/camps/holiday gifts/back to school clothes/computers, cell phone and electronics/tutoring/SAT preparation classes/driver’s education classes/car insurance/college application fees/senior year activities
  4. College/four years/bachelor’s degree/age 23/instate rate/room and board/books/fees/costs/travel costs
  5. Alimony
    1. monthly amount, or reserve right to request in the future, or waive the right
    2. if payable: the amount, commencement and due dates, and whether the support is modifiable or nonmodifiable
    3. if payable: termination upon death, remarriage or cohabitation for a specified duration
    4. if a reservation, must a significant change in financial circumstances occur for a future request       
  6. Health Insurance Coverage/dental/optical/psychological
  7. Unreimbursed Medical Expenses—covered for how long for children
  8. Life Insurance/Long Term Disability Coverage/Long Term Care Policy
    1. presently in effect or to be obtained
    2. other parent or the child/ren directly or in trust as beneficiary
    3. choice of trustees
    4. cash value
  9. Pets/Horses/Breed Dogs and Cats/Livestock
  10. Flex Fund 
  11. Business Interests/Domain Name
  12. Royalties
  13. Proceeds from a Pending Lawsuit
  14. Former Marital Home
    1. exclusive possession
    2. mortgage payments
    3. mortgage interest deduction
    4. utility payments/normal maintenance and repair payments/extraordinary repair costs
    5. value for buyout or refinance, and by when
    6. sale if not refinanced by deadline, or short sale
      1. payment of recommended improvements
      2. list price/lowering of list price/acceptance of offer of 95% or lower                   
      3. any further encumbrance prohibited
      4. division of proceeds
      5. obligations of estate/death of a party
    7. contribution to moving expenses           
  15. Investment Real Estate/Timeshares/Commercial Property
  16. Private, Federal, State or Military Defined Benefit Retirement Pension Plan Annuities & Survivorship Rights, or Waiver
  17. TSP/401k/403b/401a Defined Contribution Accounts & Survivorship Rights, or Waiver
  18. Liquid Assets/Bank Accounts/IRAs/CDs/Mutual Funds/Stocks/Stock Options/Employee Stock Purchase Plans 
  19. Bonds
  20. Safe Deposit Box Contents 
  21. Prepaid Tuition Plans/UGMA, UTMA Custodial Accounts/529 Educational Accounts
  22. Country Club/Yacht Club Membership
  23. Household Furnishings and Collections, Jewelry
  24. Cars/Boats/Motorcycles/ATVs/Personal Watercraft/Campers/Aircraft
  25. Hotel/Frequent Flyer Points  
  26. Debt/Credit Cards 
  27. Filing Taxes—Refund or Liability/Exemptions/Child Care Credit/Capital Loss Carryover/Appropriate Withholdings
  28. Divorce Proceedings/Determination of Date of Separation/Attorney’s Fees
  29. Remaining Matters—is this everything
  30. Boilerplate language
    1. waiver of claim to estate, or preservation of right to inherit          
    2. revocation of any powers of attorney
    3. protection from discharge in bankruptcy of obligations
    4. waiver, or preservation of request for attorneys fees in modification proceedings

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46090 Lake Center Plaza, Suite 307
Potomac Falls VA 20165

Telephone 703 444 3355
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